In this extract from former ballet dancer Miranda Esmonde-White’s new book, Ageing Backwards: Fast Track  (£20, Harper Wave) you’ll learn how to relax a muscle that can cause you to look old before your time!

Relaxation is the way to increase your strength and reverse your age. It’s a bit of a brain twister, I know. Relax to grow stronger?

At first glance, this statement seems to be an oxymoron. But through my research and work with clients, I’ve learned that it is an absolutely astonishing way to rapidly increase strength and grow younger.

Learn to relax

Did you know that overtraining is as damaging to your health as being sedentary? What is surprising is that relaxation, the opposite of overtraining, is an extremely powerful and safe strengthening technique. And the beauty of using relaxation to strengthen is that it doesn’t lead to injuries and damage; it is healing and age-reversing.

By looking beyond the muscles and directly at the nervous system, I discovered the hidden explanation for why so many people look robotic in their movements. If you can’t release muscle tension, you can’t move your joints smoothly through their full range of motion. This explained to me why so many people’s muscles are in a permanent state of semi-contraction or semi-tension.

Let it all go

I would highly recommend that you try to teach your joints to relax prior to doing your workouts to get familiar with how it feels. As you do the warm-up movements, try your best to completely relax your shoulders, elbows, wrists, and fingers.

If you are having trouble, try visualising that you are boneless – nothing more than a rag doll. Watch yourself in a mirror to see whether you are looking more graceful and less robotic.

Soon you will enjoy learning to relax because it feels so good. Once you master this, your body will automatically use all of your muscles properly in everyday life. With the recruitment of your full musculature, you will feel as if you’ve lost considerable weight because moving becomes easy.

Visit essentrics.com for more information on Miranda’s method.

2 mins to a younger you

This quick and easy stretch will ease stiffness and pain by mobilising your psoas muscle.

The psoas – a deep muscle in your core, which connects your spine to your legs – can truly age your body if it becomes stiff. After warming up by marching on the spot for a few minutes, try this exercise to stretch and mobilise the psoas.

An imbalance in the hip flexor group causes pain and stiffness, so stretching them will help improve your posture and relieve back pain by rebalancing the muscles and connective tissue.

Repeat the sequence three times on each leg. This should take you one minute per side.

1 Stand facing the back of a chair, holding it with both hands. Have your knees slightly bent and your left leg extended behind you. Your toes should be flexed, with the ball of the foot remaining on the floor. Keep your back straight.

2 Think of your hips like a wheel you are rotating. Tuck your tailbone under – go as far as you can.

3 Lock your tailbone in place as you try to straighten the left leg and put your heel flat on the floor, while keeping your right knee still. Count to four. If your tailbone is tucked under enough, it should be impossible to put your heel flat on the floor. You should feel a stretch in the front of your left hip.

4 Return to the first position with your leg extended behind you.

5 Slowly bend your right knee so your left knee lowers down towards the floor, keeping your hips tucked under. Your left thigh should now be at a right angle with the floor and you should feel a stretch in the front of your left thigh. The moment you reach your maximum quad stretch, return immediately to the starting position. Do not hold or remain in the stretch, as doing so will tighten your muscles.Have your knees slightly bent and your left leg extended behind you. Your toes should be flexed, with the ball of the foot remaining on the floor. Keep your back straight.